How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Start Living Life for Today (keywords: momentum, living life on purpose, business success training course)
Many of us are too worried about the “what ifs” and the “maybes”, which only creates an unhappy ending. I’ve experienced that first hand. I had been stuck in a rut of frustration at trying to figure things out and had gotten myself into such a negative state, that I just couldn’t see the good in any situation. I was overwhelmed with bills, sick parents and work drama which made it impossible for me to enjoy life. Then a funny thing happened. I saw the irony in the situation.
I have a fantastic job, paycheck to paycheck, but who cares? You might think that living paycheck to paycheck is a bad thing, but it’s not. It actually helps me. I love my job and my coworkers because it keeps me from having to figure out if I can pay the rent or not each month. Back when I was broke and unsure about how to get by, this “it’ll be alright” attitude helped me make things work out. Not only is it helping me, but my friends and family make it work too.
How did I become so negative? Well, I’m going to tell you that story now because…
It’s Not About You
“I wish I would have known at eight years old that it isn’t about me. It’s not about me when my parents fight. It’s not about me when my friends are mean to me. It’s not about me when we can’t afford a new iPad. It’s not about me when we don’t get invited to the thanksgiving dinner. It’s not about me when people don’t know what I’m talking about half the time. It’s all about them, not about me.”
Why I’m Leaving Dating Sites & Want to Learn About Less Stressful Relationships
I don’t do things that way. When I feel like getting into relationship again, it’s because I want a relationship that is beyond just physical attraction. I want to learn how to love and be loved again, just like in the beginning when we met. This is something you can’t possibly teach someone. You can only show someone what it’s about to have a loving relationship and this is something that takes time in order for both people to learn about each other, trust each other and make mistakes along the way.
This is a process and when you are willing to learn about this, then you will have to wait until the time is right for both of you, or for the right one. I don’t care how many people you’ve been seeing. It doesn’t mean that these things are going to work out in the future because people change and they learn from their mistakes.
Oh, I’m so tired of seeing this!
“The Secret Key To Love” & Why it Is Important You Know It
We must always remember that we are unique and just because it may be hard for us to find love at first, doesn’t mean that it’s impossible. Instead of trying to be somebody we’re not, we must learn how to be ourselves. By doing this without fear of rejection, we will open the door to new opportunities and realize that the most beautiful things in life are still available for us to experience. This is what’s worth living for. When we live life in fear of opening that door, we stay locked up within ourselves and we will truly never experience how good it feels to let the love in.
Now, it isn’t always easy to walk around without fear or judgment, but once you know that old saying “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear” then you will realize that if you really want to experience this love, then it’s your responsibility to be ready.
When we are not fully confident in our own lives and ourselves, then we are not in a place where we can truly connect with somebody else. The moment we gain the courage to want love again, we are brought back to ourselves once again, which is the best possible thing that could happen.